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Thursday, March 02, 2006
Closing Cycles
By Paolo Coelho
One always has to know when a stage comes to an end. If we insist on
staying longer than the necessary time, we lose the happiness and the
meaning of the other stages we have to go through.
Closing cycles, shutting doors, ending chapters whatever name we give it,what matters is to leave in the past the moments of life that have
finished.
Did you lose your job? Has a loving relationship come to an end? Did you
leave your parents' house? Gone to live abroad? Has a long-lasting
friendship ended all of a sudden?
You can spend a long time wondering why this has happened. You can tell
yourself you won't take another step until you find out why certain things that were so important and so solid in your life have turned into dust,just like that.
But such an attitude will be awfully stressing for everyone involved: your parents, your husband or wife, your friends, your children, your sister,everyone will be finishing chapters, turning over new leaves, getting on with life, and they will all feel bad seeing you at a standstill.
None of us can be in the present and the past at the same time, not even
when we try to understand the things that happen to us. What has passed
will not return: we cannot for ever be children, late adolescents, sons
that feel guilt or rancor towards our parents, lovers who day and night
relive an affair with someone who has gone away and has not the least
intention of coming back.
Things pass, and the best we can do is to let them really go away. That is why it is so important (however painful it maybe!) to destroy souvenirs,move, give lots of things away to orphanages, sell or donate the books you have at home. Everything in this visible world is a manifestation of the invisible world, of what is going on in our hearts and getting rid of certain memories also means making some room for other memories to take their place.
Let things go. Release them. Detach yourself from them. Nobody plays this life with marked cards, so sometimes we win and sometimes we lose. Do not expect anything in return, do not expect your efforts to be appreciated,your genius to be discovered, your love to be understood. Stop turning on your emotional television to watch the same program over and over again, the one that shows how much you suffered from a certain loss: that is only poisoning you, nothing else.
Nothing is more dangerous than not accepting love relationships that are
broken off, work that is promised but there is no starting date, decisions that are always put off waiting for the ideal moment. Before a new chapter is begun, the old one has to be finished: tell yourself that what has passed will never come back. Remember that there was a time when you could live without that thing or that person. Nothing is irreplaceable. A habit is not a need. This may sound so obvious, it may even be difficult, but it is very important.
Posted at 12:48 pm by rayz
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Pretty but laced like deadly poison, oblivious to how deep you had hurt me. Liar, betraying me with my friend, letting everything we cherish go to waste. Yet you did not feel any remorse inside. Losing yourself in your selfish ways, indifference to my feelings to the last. Always frigid to your sins, resourceful only in cheating my heart. So never shall I have any respect for you. Such a miserable cold heart. Infatuation with your own needs , mercilles to who you hurt along the way. Oh you really such a phony and fake! Never will you find peace in you hear!
Posted at 12:48 pm by rayz
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OnE aLwAyS HaS To kNoW WhEn a sTaGe CoMeS To aNn EnD
I had enough.. This is too much.I will try not to think of you when I wake up in the morning and ask myself if somehow you are also awake.I have my own life to lead and my own life to think of. No,I wont even think of you while Im eating my lunch wondrin' if you are doing the same thing,because sooner or lateR I know you will. No,never agaiN will I go to the comfort room aNd lock myself In just to have some privacy to piteously think of you ,cry,sing or do some silly things Because of you. And no,never will i again think of you last when I go to sleep. Sleep is my only rest,so please dont plague me in my dreams.i'll try to wake up in the morning and smile aNd think not of why u left but that once you stayed.aNd if I feel D need to cry,it will not be for the future that we could have, not for the regrets that I have nor of the anger that i feel, but I will cry because of the LOVE that I was never able to share with the one man I felt it for. I will cry for the LOVE tht was lost,AnD not FOR the man who left.I will give my affections to any man who is need of it,but not my heart because am still trying to get it back from you.I will give him the love that you never wanted,the kiss that I so longed to give you and the words that once was yours.Worthy or not worthy of it atlis he's here, you're not. I'll try to hold back the tears when I think of you.I'll just try to smile.
IM MOVING ON... AND HOPING THAT THE NEXT THING WOULD BE LETTING GO...
Posted at 12:48 pm by rayz
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albertjoseph21 (4:29:23 PM): hello
rayz_charmed (4:29:31 PM): hi
albertjoseph21 (4:30:20 PM): musta na?
rayz_charmed (4:30:33 PM): etoh sawi n nmn
albertjoseph21 (4:30:46 PM): ha? bkit?
albertjoseph21 (4:34:20 PM): bkit?
rayz_charmed (4:35:04 PM): ewan ko dun cguro ngsawa
albertjoseph21 (4:35:04 PM): bkit nkpagbreak?
rayz_charmed (4:35:34 PM): Hay… kayo tlgang mga lalake ang gugulo nyo!!!!
albertjoseph21 (4:35:40 PM): ngsawa saan?
albertjoseph21 (4:36:51 PM): kaw mgulo e
rayz_charmed (4:37:02 PM): isa ka pa]
rayz_charmed (4:37:05 PM): anong ako?!!
albertjoseph21 (4:37:52 PM): anong isa pa ko? hmmm
albertjoseph21 (4:45:11 PM): uy
albertjoseph21 (4:45:11 PM): hello
rayz_charmed (4:45:19 PM): y?
rayz_charmed (4:45:25 PM): basta magulo lahat ng lalake lalo kn
rayz_charmed (4:45:26 PM): hahaha
albertjoseph21 (4:45:37 PM): san ka b?
albertjoseph21 (4:45:43 PM): ano gawa mo?
rayz_charmed (4:46:18 PM): ofis amp
albertjoseph21 (4:46:35 PM): ows
rayz_charmed (4:46:41 PM): ows?
albertjoseph21 (4:55:17 PM): dami ka BF dba?
rayz_charmed (4:58:34 PM): amp!
rayz_charmed (4:58:36 PM): ako?!
rayz_charmed (4:58:39 PM): hnde noh
rayz_charmed (4:58:57 PM): dlwa plang nagiging bf ko ever!
albertjoseph21 (4:59:42 PM): ows?
albertjoseph21 (4:59:48 PM): dlawa pa lang? 22o b yan?
rayz_charmed (5:01:06 PM): oo noh.. Ung una 1st yr. College ako.. 2 yrs. Kmi nun.. Den 2nd nga etoh ung ngyn lng… 1 year and 9 months kmi.. Sayang nga eh..
albertjoseph21 (5:02:28 PM): ako pa!
rayz_charmed (5:02:41 PM): hahhaa
rayz_charmed (5:02:47 PM): excuse me naging bf ba kita?
rayz_charmed (5:02:49 PM): amp!
rayz_charmed (5:02:50 PM): hahahaha
rayz_charmed (5:02:57 PM): patawa amp
rayz_charmed (5:02:59 PM): asa pa?!
albertjoseph21 (5:03:03 PM): hndi ba?
albertjoseph21 (5:03:03 PM): ano?
rayz_charmed (5:03:04 PM): L-)
rayz_charmed (5:03:23 PM): u wer just a pastime dear...
rayz_charmed (5:03:26 PM): :))
albertjoseph21 (5:03:33 PM): hndi ba ha?
rayz_charmed (5:03:42 PM): hnde nga noh
albertjoseph21 (5:04:11 PM): past time mo ko?
albertjoseph21 (5:04:54 PM): ano?
rayz_charmed (5:05:14 PM): hahaha
rayz_charmed (5:05:45 PM): hnde nmn.. Basta sort of.. All I knw is hnde naging tyo.. Dba?
albertjoseph21 (5:05:52 PM): bka ngkkamali ka
albertjoseph21 (5:05:52 PM): hehehe
rayz_charmed (5:06:26 PM): hnde kaya ikaw ang nagkakamali… lols
albertjoseph21 (5:07:23 PM): hndi ba? bka nkalimot ka lang?
albertjoseph21 (5:07:52 PM): ano na ba cel# mo?
rayz_charmed (5:07:56 PM): hahahahaa
rayz_charmed (5:08:02 PM): iba yata ung sinasabi mo
rayz_charmed (5:08:05 PM): bka hnd eako un.. shooo!!!
Posted at 12:48 pm by rayz
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?!? nakakadivirginized ba ang cellphone?!?
slickyit (11:25:41 AM): bes!!!!
rayz_charmed (11:25:49 AM): :-O
rayz_charmed (11:25:52 AM): amp?!!
rayz_charmed (11:25:53 AM): hahaa
rayz_charmed (11:25:55 AM): patawa ka
rayz_charmed (11:25:58 AM): y ano prob?
rayz_charmed (11:26:02 AM): besssssssssssssssssssss!!!!!!!!!1
slickyit (11:26:08 AM): :((
slickyit (11:26:09 AM): putanina pansinin mko!!!!!!!!
slickyit (11:26:19 AM): anung patawa???
rayz_charmed (11:26:22 AM): sorry nsa likod k kc knina ung nakahuli skn na nag IRC
rayz_charmed (11:26:25 AM): ng iingat lng
rayz_charmed (11:26:31 AM): jahahhaa
rayz_charmed (11:26:38 AM): bkt> ano prblema?
slickyit (11:27:05 AM): gagu
slickyit (11:27:06 AM): hndi nko virgin!!!!!!!!!!
slickyit (11:27:09 AM): :((
slickyit (11:27:09 AM): waaaaaaaaaaaaaaa
slickyit (11:27:09 AM): bes!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
rayz_charmed (11:27:19 AM): :-O
rayz_charmed (11:27:22 AM): tang ina mo!
rayz_charmed (11:27:25 AM): gagu!
rayz_charmed (11:27:27 AM): joke yan ayt?!!
rayz_charmed (11:27:35 AM): amp isang araw lng tayo d ngkita d kn virgin
slickyit (11:27:36 AM): amp!!!!
slickyit (11:27:36 AM): cra phone ko!!!
slickyit (11:27:36 AM): umuwi ka na
slickyit (11:27:36 AM): tara at samahan mko bumili ng phone
rayz_charmed (11:27:36 AM): amp tih
rayz_charmed (11:27:38 AM): *to
rayz_charmed (11:27:41 AM): umayos k nga!
rayz_charmed (11:27:46 AM): X-(
slickyit (11:27:53 AM): hndi
slickyit (11:27:53 AM): hndi no
slickyit (11:27:53 AM): gagu
rayz_charmed (11:28:01 AM): cra phone?
rayz_charmed (11:28:03 AM): bkt?
rayz_charmed (11:28:24 AM): bkt nasira?
slickyit (11:28:31 AM): ewan ko pag gcng ko cra na cia
slickyit (11:28:31 AM): hndi ko alm
rayz_charmed (11:28:36 AM): hahaha
slickyit (11:33:28 AM): hahahah
slickyit (11:33:28 AM): ang tgal mo umuwi
slickyit (11:33:28 AM): mg absent ka na!!!!!!!
slickyit (11:33:47 AM): amp to pa cute
slickyit (11:33:47 AM): cpain kita e
rayz_charmed (11:33:55 AM): hahaha
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*isip* *isip* *isip*
ang bestfriend ko hnde na virgin?! Pano ngyari un?!! Hnde kaya may kinalaman ung cellphone nya kaya nasira… bka nag overheat ang vibrator nun… ^_^
sa tingin nyo?!!! ^_^
Posted at 12:48 pm by rayz
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